Marriage, a History
How Love Conquered Marriage
by Stephanie Coontz
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“@DanielleMorrill this book is great if you haven't read it | @blackwellbooks @fakedansavage @carriejenkins Well, I definitely recommend "What Love Is" by @carriejenkins it's a beautiful, wellargued book. Also "The Art of Loving" by Erich Fromm. "Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel is very good. Stephanie Coontz' "Marriage: A History" is essential reading. The list goes on! | @mrbenwells The book I recommended was "Marriage, A History: How Love Conquered Marriage" by @StephanieCoontz. Here:”
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Coontz delivers a readable, broad history that traces marital forms from ancient Babylon through Victorian lovers to contemporary debates, mixing archival examples, cultural context, and policy notes. what works best is the long view: it disrupts the sense that today’s marriage norms are timeless by offering concrete historical comparisons you can use in argument or teaching. The main limitation is its survey format—chronological breadth means some sections skim complex local detail and the narrative can feel repetitive if you prefer tightly focused case studies.
Read this if...
- •a sociology graduate student writing a seminar paper on family institutions who needs historical examples to contextualize claims about what counts as 'traditional' marriage
- •a public-policy analyst drafting family-law proposals who wants historical precedents and shifts in norms to avoid presentist assumptions
- •a book-club facilitator or teacher leading discussions about social change who wants accessible case studies and talking points about how marriage has varied across time and place
Skip this if...
- •you'll likely put it down when the middle chapters pile up with chronological vignettes and the parade of examples feels relentless — long survey sections are where readers tend to stop
- •annoying if you prefer prescriptive relationship advice or quick takeaways — this is history and it lacks hands-on exercises or step-by-step guidance
- •lose interest if you want tight quantitative theory or abstract modeling — the narrative favors qualitative, anecdotal and archival evidence over statistical argument
Just when the clamor over "traditional" marriage couldn't get any louder, along comes this groundbreaking book to ask, "What tradition" In Marriage, a History, historian and marriage expert Stephanie Coontz takes readers from the marital intrigues of ancient Babylon to the torments of Victorian lovers to demonstrate how recent the idea of marrying...
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- a sociology graduate student writing a seminar paper on family institutions who needs historical examples to contextualize claims about what counts as 'traditional' marriage
- a public-policy analyst drafting family-law proposals who wants historical precedents and shifts in norms to avoid presentist assumptions
- a book-club facilitator or teacher leading discussions about social change who wants accessible case studies and talking points about how marriage has varied across time and place
- you'll likely put it down when the middle chapters pile up with chronological vignettes and the parade of examples feels relentless — long survey sections are where readers tend to stop
- annoying if you prefer prescriptive relationship advice or quick takeaways — this is history and it lacks hands-on exercises or step-by-step guidance
- lose interest if you want tight quantitative theory or abstract modeling — the narrative favors qualitative, anecdotal and archival evidence over statistical argument
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Recommended by 5 sources and appears in Most Recommended Books, History, and Social Sciences.
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Dan Savage
“@DanielleMorrill this book is great if you haven't read it | @blackwellbooks @fakedansavage @carriejenkins Well, I definitely recommend "What Love Is" by @carriejenkins it's a beautiful, wellargued book. Also "The Art of Loving" by Erich Fromm. "Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel is very good. Stephanie Coontz' "Marriage: A History" is essential reading. The list goes on! | @mrbenwells The book I recommended was "Marriage, A History: How Love Conquered Marriage" by @StephanieCoontz. Here:”
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