Mating in Captivity
Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
by Esther Perel
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“@blackwellbooks @fakedansavage @carriejenkins Well, I definitely recommend "What Love Is" by @carriejenkins it's a beautiful, wellargued book. Also "The Art of Loving" by Erich Fromm. "Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel is very good. Stephanie Coontz' "Marriage: A History" is essential reading. The list goes on! | More fav books I read in 2022: Lying Life of Adult,s by Elana Ferrante Visit From The Goon Squad Paper Girls by Brian Vaughn Acts of Service by Lillian Fishman Mating in Captivity by @EstherPerel Immortal XMen by @kierongillen 120 Days in Medieval Baghdad by Emily Selove | Such a good book about just deconstructing the whole idea of success in relationships.”
Source →“@blackwellbooks @fakedansavage @carriejenkins Well, I definitely recommend "What Love Is" by @carriejenkins it's a beautiful, wellargued book. Also "The Art of Loving" by Erich Fromm. "Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel is very good. Stephanie Coontz' "Marriage: A History" is essential reading. The list goes on! | More fav books I read in 2022: Lying Life of Adult,s by Elana Ferrante Visit From The Goon Squad Paper Girls by Brian Vaughn Acts of Service by Lillian Fishman Mating in Captivity by @EstherPerel Immortal XMen by @kierongillen 120 Days in Medieval Baghdad by Emily Selove | Such a good book about just deconstructing the whole idea of success in relationships.”
Source →“@blackwellbooks @fakedansavage @carriejenkins Well, I definitely recommend "What Love Is" by @carriejenkins it's a beautiful, wellargued book. Also "The Art of Loving" by Erich Fromm. "Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel is very good. Stephanie Coontz' "Marriage: A History" is essential reading. The list goes on! | More fav books I read in 2022: Lying Life of Adult,s by Elana Ferrante Visit From The Goon Squad Paper Girls by Brian Vaughn Acts of Service by Lillian Fishman Mating in Captivity by @EstherPerel Immortal XMen by @kierongillen 120 Days in Medieval Baghdad by Emily Selove | Such a good book about just deconstructing the whole idea of success in relationships.”
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Recommended by 6 sources and appears in Sex Therapy, Sex Positive, and Relationship.
A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.One of the world?s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of ...
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“@blackwellbooks @fakedansavage @carriejenkins Well, I definitely recommend "What Love Is" by @carriejenkins it's a beautiful, wellargued book. Also "The Art of Loving" by Erich Fromm. "Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel is very good. Stephanie Coontz' "Marriage: A History" is essential reading. The list goes on! | More fav books I read in 2022: Lying Life of Adult,s by Elana Ferrante Visit From The Goon Squad Paper Girls by Brian Vaughn Acts of Service by Lillian Fishman Mating in Captivity by @EstherPerel Immortal XMen by @kierongillen 120 Days in Medieval Baghdad by Emily Selove | Such a good book about just deconstructing the whole idea of success in relationships.”
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